With the news of late full of General Petraeus and other men who’ve had affairs, there’s a lot of talk about what makes men cheat. Pat Robertson said, “I mean, he’s a man”, and the world seems to agree: Men cheat because they’re men. But wait a minute… We here at The Good Men Project know a lot of guys who don’t cheat—guys who are committed to being faithful to their partners. And knowing all these good guys, we certainly do not support the notion that masculinity=infidelity. And so, as a response to The Huffington Post’s “Why Do Men Cheat: 26 Reasons Guys Cheat, According to Men“, we offer you 31 reasons men do NOT cheat, from men and those who love them.